You talk about music to share it

Well said:

This is not meant to put down anyone else‚Äôs musical taste, or point out how cool I am. I could (and have) walk into any college radio station and get that attitude aimed at me by some DJ with a crate of out-of-print Lithuanian ska-tech remix 12‚Ä?s. That‚Äôs no fun! If you want to club people with ‚Äòtude, explain to them why their favorite API sucks. You talk about music to share it, make friends, and find more of it, not to alienate people.

Mental note: be nicer when talking about music.

The Telegraph has a couple articles on the toxic wife

The Telegraph has a couple articles on the toxic wife.

I have every admiration for women who choose the selfless task of caring and nurturing the next generation. No, the toxic wife is a completely different species. She is the woman who gives up work as soon as she marries, ostensibly to create a stable home environment for any children that might come along, but who then employs large numbers of staff to do all the domestic work she promised to undertake, leaving her with little to do all day except shop, lunch, luxuriate. Believe me, there is no shortage of the breed and I've been inundated with horror tales about them.