This is the Question, Charles Darwin writes at the top of the page. Each half of the page is a list brainstorming his two options with Emma Wedgewood:

To Marry…

Children — (if it Please God) — Constant companion, (& friend in old age) who will feel interested in one, — object to be beloved & played with. — —better than a dog anyhow. — Home, & someone to take care of house — Charms of music & female chit-chat. — These things good for one’s health. — Forced to visit & receive relations but terrible loss of time. —

My God, it is intolerable to think of spending ones whole life, like a neuter bee, working, working, & nothing after all. — No, no won’t do. — Imagine living all one’s day solitarily in smoky dirty London House. — Only picture to yourself a nice soft wife on a sofa with good fire, & books & music perhaps — Compare this vision with the dingy reality of Grt. Marlbro’ St.

or Not Marry?

No children, (no second life), no one to care for one in old age.— What is the use of working without sympathy from near & dear friends—who are near & dear friends to the old, except relatives

Freedom to go where one liked — choice of Society & little of it. — Conversation of clever men at clubs — Not forced to visit relatives, & to bend in every trifle. — to have the expense & anxiety of children — perhaps quarelling — Loss of time. — cannot read in the Evenings — fatness & idleness — Anxiety & responsibility — less money for books &c — if many children forced to gain one’s bread. — (But then it is very bad for ones health to work too much)

Perhaps my wife wont like London; then the sentence is banishment & degradation into indolent, idle fool —

The final result:

Marry — Marry — Marry. Q.E.D.

He also goes on to wrestle with the question of marrying sooner vs. later. (via)

See also: lay it all out where you can look at it.

Favorite Albums of 2008

I’m not limiting myself to 2008—I’m never that up-to-date, and you already know about Fleet Foxes and Bon Iver without my telling you. I spent some time sorting through my iTunes and came up with albums that I bought or first gave a serious listen to this year. I made selections month-by-month:
stardust willie nelson

Stardust is a Willie Nelson album from 1978. It’s a collection of old standards, like Stardust, All of Me, Moonlight in Vermont. I love those good songs that have such a rich history. Some of them are 60, 70, 80 years old, and they’re still good, and there’s probably many more good covers to come.

I had a 4-way tie for favorite Radiohead album until In Rainbows came along. Easily my most-played album this year.


I pretty much flipped out when I first listened to Ainadamar. I spent a nice Saturday afternoon playing it very, very loudly following along with the Spanish libretto. The music has a cool mix of Cuban and Moorish influences.

Jeff Buckley, Live at Mercury Lounge. Hard to find, google it. Lots of goofy stage banter. He plays Buckley standbys and also the childhood classic 3 Is a Magic Number, Nina Simone’s The Other Woman, and the old folk tune Dink’s Song.

Moon Pix is one of the early Cat Power records. I love the loose, sliding feel to the whole album.

johnny cash at san quentin

Johnny Cash at San Quentin. I’d rank this over the Folsom Prison recordings. It’s a barn-burner. The audience is so fired up.

Saxophonists Paul Desmond & Gerry Mulligan have some lovely things to say on Two of a Mind.

glenn gould a state of wonder

Glenn Gould: A State of Wonder collects Gould’s famous recordings of the Goldberg Variations—the 1955 recording that helped make his name and the 1981 recording shortly before he died. Great stuff.

Elvis: 2nd to None. A nice compilation. I have such fun with this one, I just wanna dance and swagger all Elvis-y. Listen to Bossa Nova Baby. And come on, If I Can Dream? Goose bumps every time.

I was too cool for Fiona Apple’s debut when it first came out. Now that I’m older and wiser Tidal has gotten a good bit of play.

speaking for trees cat power

Speaking for Trees. I’ve never seen the movie that goes along with it, but the sounds are great. There’s some guitar noodling, crickets and bugs buzzing in the background, Chan Marshall’s singing. That’s about it.

Bach: Cello Suites. Pierre Fournier performs. Great music for background, deep listening, or dancing if you know your gigues, menuets, courantes, gavottes, etc.

Shostakovich: The String Quartets. The Fitzwilliam String Quartet plays the 15 quartets. It’s a lot to take in.

A bit of a weak month, but I liked string quartets of Leoš Janáček and Maurice Ravel. The first time I heard Janáček’s String Quartet No. 2, “Intimate Letters” was on NPR while I was driving. One of those tunes where you have to stay in the car until it’s over.

somewhere in time iron maiden

Iron Maiden – Somewhere in Time. A nostalgic pick. I hadn’t listened to this album since elementary school, but I stumbled across it in our office iTunes network. It still sends me off to air guitar land. See: Wasted Years, The Loneliness of the Long Distance Runner and the mini-history lesson in Alexander the Great.

Rush – 2112. Sucker for prog rock.

ibrahim ferrer buenos hermanos

Ibrahim Ferrer – Buenos Hermanos. I’m convinced one of the best reasons to work with other people is for the intra-office music sharing. A co-worker introduced this album to me. My favorite pick by far is Boliviana, I emailed her: “The last minute of the song makes me want to be on the patio of a little coastal villa somewhere in Central America, dancing with all my friends while the sun sets.”

Soul of the Tango: The Music of Ástor Piazzolla. Yo-Yo Ma plays passionate Argentinian dance music.

Went on vacation and didn’t listen much. Didn’t find anything fantastic when I got back home.

bonnie prince billy ask forgiveness

Bonnie ‘Prince’ Billy’s Ask Forgiveness is a really great, much-too-short album of covers, including Bj??rk and R. Kelly. His cover of Sinatra’s Cycles might be my favorite song this year…

Almost Alone. A late Chet Atkins collection of mostly solo country guitar. Listen to Jam Man or Big Foot.

Southern Country Gospel. I love albums like this that make you remember how much that gospel, bluegrass, blues, country, and folk are so intertwined. And I love the common emotional elements: love, struggle, desire, hope, etc.

ella and louis

Ella and Louis. Fitzgerald and Armstrong. A great collection of duets that was a long time coming. Give a listen to They Can’t Take That Away from Me and Cheek to Cheek.

Blood on the Tracks. I’m a latecomer to Bob Dylan. I’ve forgiven myself and I’m working on it.

Charles Mingus wrote The Black Saint and the Sinner Lady as a ballet, set to jazz suite in six parts.

talking timbuktu ry cooder ali farka toure

The month is still young, but this one is great. Talking Timbuktu brings together Ry Cooder and Ali Farka Touré for an African blues jam. Good stuff. Check out Ai Du.

Top Books for 2007

Let’s see… glancing back through the year, here’s what I’m most glad to have read. I wrote about most of these…
The Road by Cormac McCarthy
The Strange Case of Dr. Jekyll & Mr. Hyde by Robert Louis Stevenson
Down and Out in the Magic Kingdom by Cory Doctorow
Burning Chrome by William Gibson

The Rest Is Noise: Listening to the Twentieth Century by Alex Ross
Ex Libris: Confessions of a Common Reader by Anne Fadiman
Reading Comics: How Graphic Novels Work and What They Mean by Douglas Wolk
He’s Just Not That Into You by Greg Behrendt and Liz Tuccillo
The Blind Side: Evolution of a Game by Michael Lewis
Interaction of Color by Josef Albers
Theory and History by Ludwig von Mises
Style: The Basics of Clarity and Grace by Joseph Williams

Curses by Kevin Huizenga
Tales of Woodsman Pete by Lilli Carr?©
Plastic Man: Rubber Bandits by Kyle Baker
The Surrogates by Robert Venditti

Too bad I don’t have a better remembrance of what I read but didn’t review. Need to keep better track of that.

Top Music for 2007

My top artists for 2007, according to Not the most representative collection, because the long tail of my listening habits is, well, really long. But aside from a few surprises, it’s pretty fair. One thing that’s not a surprise: I am decidedly out-of-date. I think only a few of these folks came out with an album this year. And a lot of them are dead. I almost never know what’s going on in the music world, but I’m okay with that.
On with the list…

Jeff Buckley – No surprise here. Pretty sure I’ve got more of his music than any other person in my collection.
King Crimson – Big surge in the second half of the year. In the Court of the Crimson King quickly became one of my favorite albums, ever. And Beat is a lot of fun.
Pink Floyd – Old standby.
DJ Ti?´sto – This was a bit of a surprise, but In Search of Sunrise has gotten a lot of play. Like today, for example.
Claude Debussy – Heavy play of the Nocturnes and Children’s Corner.
Dave Brubeck – Didn’t expect him so high, but he got featured in a couple of playlists.
Radiohead – No surprise.
Jean Sibelius – Huge surge this winter, after reading The Rest Is Noise.
Philip Glass – I went on a Glass-collecting spree this fall. Still have something of love/hate relationship with his music.
Feist – We had a good year together, except for when she released an album when I was out hiking for a couple months.
Sergei Rachmaninoff – Pretty balanced play from an old favorite, across the spectrum of symphonies, concertos, choral works and chamber stuff.
Madonna – Never really listened to her until this year. Big fan.
Bela Fleck & the Flecktones – Another surprise here. Didn’t think I was listening to them so much, but I got addicted to “Big Country” for a while.
Pat Metheny – Probably would have ranked higher if kept track of all the play on road trips.
Henry Purcell – I sat through Dido & Aeneas a bunch of times so I could hear the final aria and chorus in context.
Johnny Cash – A good bit of the older stuff, but especially American IV.
Duran DuranRio, mostly. Especially “New Religion“.
Daft Punk – Eh. Need to play this less, I think.
Al Jarreau – Mostly the live album, Look to the Rainbow.
Carly Simon – Almost all from Anticipation.
Erik Satie – Almost exclusively due to the Gymnopedies.
April March – For some reason, the fact that she’s over 40 really boggles me.
Will Scruggs – A good friend and brilliant jazz saxophonist.
Joanna Newsom – Surprised she wasn’t higher on my list. Probably would be if her songs weren’t so epic and awesome. Still feel like an idiot for not going to her Atlanta show this past November.
Machito – The Afro-Cuban Jazz Suite got into a couple playlists.